"...I never did figure out what the polite thing is to do if you outright think a gift is ugly. Though that's probably beside the point. Did anyone try to 'give you back' before?"
"Do you know anything besides that you're surprised, about your father not insisting that Mahtan take you?"
"It would normally be rude to demand that someone teach your child even if they didn't want to, and people who are high-status enough can expect more politeness even from people who are also high-status. A while ago Rúmil suggested that I could stop thinking of your father as a king and I said that if I did that I'd probably be offended the next time he phrased something as an order."
"He convinced people to move to Valinor, that's a pretty major accomplishment."
"The Valar can be really scary if you don't know much about them. He was very brave."
"I think the skill that might be highest leverage for you on a lot of things you have trouble with is perspective-taking."
"...I mean, it might count, but that's because it just involves sitting around and thinking and maybe talking to me, not because it's boring."