Well. It was true in a sense that I personally find compelling; if she'd come he'd have been less reckless and despairing and together she and I could have talked him down on the ships, if she'd come we'd have been safer, if she'd come things would be better. And I personally can't imagine loving someone and having the avenue to make things better and protect them and not coming. But I don't think she felt like she could keep on doing it all the way through to our preordained and inevitable deaths, and it's not like my father is an easy person.
...so having someone with free will show up on her doorstep and announce that there has been plot derail might be. Interesting.
Is there anyone else I should meet besides her - independently, that is, I'll follow her lead if she wants to introduce me to someone?
He will think the main reason not to let us back into Valinor is that the Valar would not kill us slowly enough. But otherwise you'll probably get along, he's a good King.
...I will try to overlook this minor, trivial flaw of his.
Not culturally. Just personally. - The emotional foundation's there, I can use it to do things like work faster or hit harder. But I'm more dangerous scared than angry, in the relevant sense; I can think straight through anger alone; and when I'm thinking straight I want people who've done bad things stopped, not hurt, not if that's not important to stopping them - maybe deterring third parties but not for its own sake.
We're not even trying on leave for the exiled to return, and anyway the Doom says specifically that we'll remain in Mandos even should all those we wronged entreat the Valar to lighten their sentence, so I doubt a situation will arise where it will help. If one does, obviously you may share anything that helps you achieve your goals.
I would probably have guessed in a sufficiently dire circumstance but it didn't actually cross my mind in so many words before.
"Maedhros had the idea that - if Ulmo says it's all right, I haven't asked yet, and if your parents agree - that I could take you for a visit to Valinor."