No, that's precisely the wrong way to go about this. She needs to get a sense of the other players on her team first. She's good at organizing. 

A few subjective moments later...

Team Good:

Milani: Fiery. The Devotion and Hope domains have great interactions with her playstyle. And they both agree deeply on certain forms of consent. Also she's hot. She's still a little sad that she stole her rose, but it can't be helped; she did have it first. Really doing her best, as far as Sunaira can tell, just a bit unstable.

Cayden Cailean: Kind of reckless for her. The whole alcohol thing doesn't really play well with consent. She agrees with the whole slave-freeing thing though. That he shares the Love domain is more than a little Concerning to her! She admits he has some roguish charm, but he's not really relationship material. 

Desna: A sweet thing. Kind of off in her own little world, but means well. Her edicts to explore and express yourself through art and song are very sensible and the kind of thing that should exist in the world. She's good at pleasure, even if she doesn't see that the aim of it is to build a better world. There's some potential here to capture. 

Erastil: Very... traditional. He's good at the basic building blocks, though. There's some potential here. Really pretty decent relationship material, even if he is a bit stuffy. She can see why he's taken. 

Shelyn: RELATIONSHIP MATERIAL ALERT. She has a crush. The focus on beauty, love, art and music is super strongly in tune with her own domains. The issue is that she's really more focused on art than sexuality, even though sexuality is so deep and worth caring about. She's doing alright. Sunaira can do better, of course, but she is definitely paying attention to this girl. 

Iomedae: The power gamer of the team. Big into honor, big into doing what's effective. She can respect the sacrifices her people make, but good god does this girl ever need to get laid. Yes, she's ace. Yes, it's ironic that she did that to herself. It's sad, though. She respects it, but... Yeah. Good ally, bad lover. 

Sarenrae: A nice enough girl. Sweet, kind, cares a lot. She can vibe with it. Just not really her type? She agrees with all of it, it's just that her preaching of temperance and charity isn't really her area. She could definitely do worse in a teammate. 

Team Neutral:

Irori: Big on self-discipline. She can get into that kind of training, and the self-actualization aspect is cool. She could get along with him. The whole moderation thing is not her, but she can manage it.

Calistria: Hot, but don't. Way too unstable to be relationship material. They'll probably end up working together anyway because she's the natively-kinkiest of the goddesses on this plane. That's going to be a problem. Still, with some harm reduction efforts, she might be fixable... it's just that Vengeance domain that's really a problem. 

Abadar: Understands negotiation well enough, it's just that he's the kind of dom who doesn't respect a safeword unless it was explicitly negotiated up front and demands concessions in exchange. She's dealt with worse, but he needs some smartening up. 

Nethys: Don't. He's not sane enough to negotiate with. 

Gozreh: Annoying stone in the road of technological progress, but perhaps negotiable with.

Gorum: Another annoying third party. Anathema to her methods, in general. 

Pharasma: The GM, or so she's set herself up. Importantly not good.

The Opponents: 

Asmodeus & Zon-Kuthon: The worst kind of controlling rapist assholes. The kind of people who use kink to hurt people. It's never play with these two unless you're being toyed with. Fuck them.

Lamashtu: ALSO her direct competition over sexuality. What is with the evil deities on this plane. Why are all of them about sexuality and none of the good ones are really competing for it?

Norgorber: Represents the dark side of sacrifice, where the people who are sacrificed don't consent to it. Also needs to be dealt with but less urgently. 

Urgathoa: She is going to need to take Precautions about sexually transmitted diseases, isn't she? Ugh. That's a pain. This one is also a problem. 

Rovagug: You know, if she could just kill this one deity, who very deserves it, the whole game system collapses. Funny how that works. Trouble is, he's pretty tough.

Okay, she has an actionable plan. 

Hey Calistria, can I talk to you?

What can I do you for, darling?

You know how if you seal wasps in a tube for a little while it buzzes and is good for use as a sex toy?

Please, I wasn't born yesterday.

Yeah, thought so. Ever thought of making that happen with a simple enchantment on a wand?

I'm listening...

It would be simple enough to inspire some mortal to invent. I'm willing to contribute to having that exist. Abadar would probably contribute to the intervention budget. I bet I can sell Irori on it too.

Sell Irori on a sex toy? I'd like to see you try.

Give me a moment.

Hey Irori, do you have any followers who need help mastering their libidos?

What? Aren't you a goddess of sexuality? Don't you want there to be more sex, not less?

I'm also a goddess of sacrifice. If someone wants to give up their own sexuality that's their own business. Also, I personally love chastity play and orgasm control. So I have a bit of a personal interest, you could say.

Get to your point.

I want to introduce a simple tool that will make it easier for people to have orgasms when they want to and thus set aside their libido more easily. A need that is more easily met is easier to master. The tool can always be discarded later.

I'll trade you everything I know about long-term chastity play if you'll back the invention of this.

That's a more than acceptable price. Deal.

Calistria, I just talked to Irori and got his consent for the project.

You're not lying to me, are you?

Look, I'll make that legible to you in a provable way.

Huh. Okay. 

I'm all for it.

I'll approach Abadar, then.

Hey Abadar, I have an idea for an invention I'm willing to sponsor on the material plane that I bet a lot of people would be willing to pay for.

How much?

Funny thing, mortals tend to value their sexualities quite a lot. So making this particular invention cheaply available could produce a lot of economic stimulus. 

Here's a schematic for a technological version. It's a very simple device. Think it's replicable with an enchantment?