Wangji is being truthful, he can tell. While he doesn't know precisely what it would look like if Wangji lied - Wangji has never lied to him, and he wouldn't ever expect him to - Xichen is very familiar with the look of Wangji withholding things from him, Wangji closing away information. That does not look like this.
And more than that he looks... different. He holds himself with less tension and yet more sorrow than Xichen is used to. The grief flickering in his eyes, Xichen recognizes. He has not seen it since Wangji was a child.
Wangji is still a child, really. Apparently this is what it looks like after his child brother goes to war.
"Thank you for telling me," he says slowly. "You must feel very disoriented. A war... how long does it last?"