Vanyel takes a deep breath. Lets it out. "Bella, I - I agree about keeping information secure, but...I don't know, it's just, I'm not sure it feels right to have everything about Leareth covered under your oath as a Mindhealer." (Valdemaran does not really have a good word for 'therapist' that doesn't imply the Mindhealing Gift.) "He's - a way bigger deal than just me, you know? And, I don't know, if something comes up and I can't give you consent, I'd want you to be able to use your judgement to decide what to do. Your judgement in general, as a smart person who knows magic."
He closes his eyes. "Although...I really don't want you to tell anyone, right now, there's no way to explain it that won't end up with people mad at me."