Maybe Scott will react better to a story as opposed to just pure reasoning...
"Okay, I am going to start from way back. I already mentioned that one of my uncles committed suicide... His father, my grandfather, was very serious about responsibility and having his children overachieve on everything. That uncle had a set of powers that made him excellent to police other skymages so my grandfather pushed him to train that and it was so much that my uncle decided to take his own life. This prompted my other uncle and my mom to flee to America alongside my dad, Stormlords do arranged marriages and they didn't approve of my dad as well."
"So they start a new life in America and Fenris and I are born soon after, our little sister a few years later. Of course, my parents didn't want to commit my grandfather's mistake, but they sort of overshoot. They still wanted us to do well in school but they always phrased it as about being ourselves, that this is all that we should care about and we didn't need to give a damn about how many weather-solvable problems we saw on the TV."
"And this was in America, our version, I mean. Where around 80% of the population believes in angels, and a substantial fraction of that believe global warming is purely skymage-made because we are the descendants of Satan. I wouldn't quite compare with racism, I have a lot of strong powers after all, but... people wince when they register the fire-coded colors of my wings sometimes even cross the street. My mom had to volunteer as an assistant so kindergarten would accept us. A friend once said I couldn't come over because her parents didn't approve of mageborn, that kind of thing. Is not without reason, but it is... different from what other people dealt with."
"And the general sum of those pressures was such that... We had to be comfortable with the idea that we are more powerful than anyone around that wasn't our parents - we had to - or we would cultivate a very unhealthy emotional state. And we couldn't just trust everything we were told no matter if the person loved us or if they were, like nearly everyone, well-intentioned. So we had to be on the look out, figuring out why we should do things instead of having the answer handed to us. Inaction or ignorance might not make us guilty, but it doesn't mean that we couldn't have done better and... Not being able to even know the consequences of what I am doing is quite frankly terrifying, because I have a lot of power to leverage things in the right direction but I need to know which direction I have to leverage."
"Well, that is not all of it, but it is a good chunk of it. And you shouldn't feel bad - I don't want that from people - but I wanted to explain my point of view and why it might look like I want to arrive in this world and be suddenly handed its keys so I can do whatever with it. I don't. I want to help, and to do that I have to have initiative or I am not being responsible."