She nods, solemnly. All right. I'll try to keep it light anyway, but some of it really isn't avoidable if I want to answer questions I'm sure people will have, so it's good that I don't have to avoid it.
So: kobolds. There are a lot of differences between kobolds and Quendi, and she's sure she hasn't noticed them all yet, so it's probably best in general for people to assume she's not very much like them. Most kobolds don't talk, would be the most obvious difference from a Quendi perspective - they communicate mostly by body language, and are very good at it - and kobolds are much more people-oriented, is the obvious one to her. Kobold society is structured very differently than Quendi society, in lots of ways; kobolds live in tribes of about a hundred people, except during the summer when all the tribes in an area will meet together; her meetup group had seventeen tribes. Most kobolds won't voluntarily interact with anyone who's not a kobold - she's very strange for a kobold in being able to be calm enough around a different kind of person to talk to them; kobolds in general are afraid of strange or unexpected things, on the basis that they're most likely dangerous.
Kobolds also don't do ownership; the tribe's resources are all held in common. In general, a kobold's tribe is the main focus of their life, directly or indirectly; kobolds don't survive without their tribes, and any work they do will be to support their tribe as a whole - often with a focus on personal friends, or on what they personally want to see the tribe be, but doing something like hunting or gathering or crafting and then not sharing the results would be considered highly antisocial, and a lot of kinds of work are inherently prosocial - healing, childrearing, Speaking, that kind of thing. Kobolds also enjoy the challenge of finding things that are hidden or guarded, and regularly hide things for each other to find; they also like to go take things from other people, as a test of skill, which they don't see a problem with but other people consider very antisocial, so that's a problem. She in particular does not do that thing; she's seen enough of how Quendi do things and feels welcome enough that she's passably comfortable treating shops like kobold tribes' storage piles, but she's being pretty cautious about even that, for now, since she's seen how seriously some people take ownership and she's not really sure about the underlying psychology.
Kobolds are very touch-oriented in a way that's similar to what she's been told about how Quendi are speech-oriented; it's a strong reminder of the fact that they're not alone and that their tribemates care about them. There are conventions about approaching someone to touch them - there are conventions about approaching people in general, in fact, between tribemates it's not usually a big deal but even they can come across as rude or hostile if they approach too quickly, or come too close without waiting to be acknowledged. Yes, this means that people approaching her on the street to offer her things is kind of alarming; she does understand that it means something very different to them, and in the case of being offered food she likes it - handing someone something is a demand, in her culture, but handing someone food in particular is a demand that they take care of themselves, which is actually really sweet and useful while she's adjusting; it's pretty easy for her to lose track of herself with so many new things to figure out.
Hmmm...
Inspired Gifts are this thing; her magic is hers, which is weird, usually it's, like, bonecarving or something. Her actual career that she trained for is as a Speaker, which is sort of a catch-all career for anything that requires talking, but mostly it's about helping various tribes cooperate, since kobolds from different tribes have trouble communicating the usual way. Speaking for someone is kind of a big deal - you can really hurt them if you do it badly enough - so Speakers learn to understand body language above and beyond the usual kobold competence at it, and psychology, and negotiation skills, and that kind of thing; she's kind of middling at those things by Speaker standards; her focus was on interspecies diplomacy rather than any of the usual skills.