"I initially thought he seemed simultaneously emotionally needy and withdrawn after a time he was imprisoned and tortured, and in hindsight I never again saw him act quite exactly as he had before, but at the time I thought he would recover - of course I asked him about what had happened and made sure he wasn't cursed, but he didn't want to be frank with me or with any of his other friends after that, possibly with the exception of his wife but possibly not. Then - he came back from a trip, learned about his son's imprisonment, and seemed furious. Someone who was injured helping me imprison Luka's son suggested that we would be willing to make it up to Luka. It seemed to me that that made Luka angrier than I'd ever seen him, but he wouldn't answer questions. Understand that we didn't speak to each other in English and this is a translation, but he said 'I'll think about it' - " Traveler mimics Luka's prosody as well as his tone of voice, which was apparently very cold, almost hissed, and bitten off with the finality of a guillotine. " - and then left. I asked his wife to pass a note to him; he didn't answer it and she never confirmed to me that she actually gave it to him. Then..."
Traveler sighs. "I was distracted by my son's death. I didn't try much of anything for a time that your species would call very long. It was years later that we attended a party together where he walked away every time I asked him if we could talk, and told me to shut up when I asked - this is likewise a translation - 'you okay, man?' And then he killed one of the waitstaff and left and I didn't think I ought to go after him. He came back on his own to speak to me, but only loudly and in front of everyone, and he seemed to have come back specifically to insult and provoke people, so that, likewise, didn't seem like a good time to talk even before he claimed credit for my son being dead. Then he, ah, left the building in a very creative way and in a bit of a rush. After he was imprisoned, I visited him and asked if we could talk. He refused me." Traveler huffs a bit and shakes his head.
"Other than trying to speak with him, I have tried to have some empathy," he says in a tone and with a look at Luka that both very clearly imply unlike some people. "I have also tried discussing his behavior with other people who used to be his friends. I tried to spy on him, but he made that very difficult. I did not deliberately subject myself to torture just to have empathy for him, but I have been held captive and tortured myself, though not for so long. I don't think it helped, though I suppose a thousand years might help more. Seems inefficient to try that when I'm so busy, though." (This last bit is said with very dry humor and he looks Ramona in the eye and smiles slightly.)