He's still hard, even now, she can feel. Doing anything physically encouraging would be unhelpful, she decides. He's turned on, it's just that being turned on doesn't matter to him right now, so making him more turned on wouldn't accomplish anything.
It's... surprisingly easy, to be patient. Eelesia doesn't usually think of herself as a patient person, but she gets it, on a gut level, that he can't engage that part of himself right now. She's in a weird headspace herself, empathizing with that, simultaneously feeling the throbbing in her core where her groin is pressed against his skin, feeling the urge to grind against him... and yet being caught in a shared moment that seems to be generating an endless well of patience, like something outside of herself is holding her still. It feels fragile, but so long as nothing breaks the delicate balance, she feels like she could remain like this forever and be content.
"Hey," she idly speaks up after a while, her voice a whisper-soft murmur into his ear. "Coventina and Sky. How do you feel about them? You trusted me enough to let go of your tears with me. If you imagine letting go like that with either of them, what does that feel like?"