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Yeah... it does seem vaguely significant that it happened right when my soul did something, but my soul didn't actually do it...

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I was wondering if it would. I do not think you can get married by wondering about it, though.

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Yeah, that would seem... hmm... I don't think you can get married just by wondering about it, but you wondered about it, and my soul made some pretty lights but didn't actually marry us, and now we're married. That can't be a complete coincidence, right?

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Probably not. People do get married by accident, but - still straight people, 'accident' means 'had sex without planning to go that far', not 'didn't even think it was possible -'

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...but you did think it was possible, in a sense - you were at least wondering about it -

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Well, yes...

 

 

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Silly idea that's probably really hard to test and, if true, a really bad idea to tell anyone about: marriage isn't that one specific kind of sex, it's sex plus the expectation of marriage?

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...possible. And, yes, probably a terrible idea to spread around, which makes explaining what happened even more complicated.

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Lie and say my soul did it?

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Probably. But then other people'll wonder if their souls will do it - which, I guess, if they're expecting them to, maybe they will...

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Yeah. And 'soulbearers can intentionally get married even if they otherwise couldn't' seems like a safe expectation to set up, if it really is the expectation thing, and a pretty harmless thing to suggest if it isn't.

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If it's the expectations thing maybe the best thing to do is say soulbearers only marry if they intend to, and if they intend to can marry regardless of -

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Yeah. And if we say that and it turns out to be true then that suggests my silly idea was probably right, and if we say that and it doesn't turn out to be true then I guess we apologize for guessing wrong based on our limited information and misleading everyone...

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And causing some people to be married when they didn't want to be.

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And then we maybe revisit the question of what to do about people who are married and don't want to be.

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Can the oath-clearing power handle it?

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He checks.

Not immediately, but if I wanted a marriage-clearing power it would take me a day or two to branch it from the oaths one.

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There are some people who'd benefit from that.

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Yeah. I definitely want to help them, I just don't want to do it haphazardly, I want to minimize the upheaval among people who are perfectly happy in the unending permanence of their marriages.

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Yes, I get what you mean. If it were only for cases of coercion in the first place that'd be something.

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Well - coercion and accident, maybe - in any case 'people who actually want to stop being married' - that'd be the most natural way for the power to work anyway, from my soul. I guess even if I choose to put off doing it myself I still can't ultimately control whether anyone else's soul comes up with marriage nullification powers, but it'd make people aware of the possibility.

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And there might be happy marriages that'd nonetheless be - complicated - by the option -

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Yeah... I dunno.

(He can imagine someone coming in from some strange world with some strange magic and, with the best of intentions, depriving him of the soul powers that make him permanently vulnerable to Maitimo - his soul flares silver at the thought, expressing a reaction approximately translatable as 'they can fucking try'.)

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Yeah, exactly. 

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If someone gets unmarried and then regrets it I suppose they can always get married again... I think if I branch a power that can unmarry people only if they genuinely want to stop being married, and am careful about using it, that's probably the best I can do.

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