And when they have done that, Bella says, Okay, I'm removing the amnesia now, and then she does it.
Bella has notes. She sends to Miriel only, not Finwë. I could try to also make you forget that you forgot anything, but that would be disorienting for you and tricky for me.
Do you think you'd believe you'd consent to a permanent amnesia or would you rather think I made a mistake?
It's plausible I could make a mistake and not be able to take it off, Bella says, if that's what you'd like to be told.
I mean, you can tell your husband that I'm going to make so you think I make a mistake and can't take it off, and then you can think that; but actually I'll do it reversibly like last time. And everyone else can just hear that your treatment is a private matter.
That's going to get really hard to pretend about eventually, Bella says, because memories get really entangled; you're going to go around living your life under the impression that it's stuck forgotten, then it'll turn out not to be, and after that's happened a few times it gets incredibly delicate to change the memory thoroughly enough. Patient consent is not for the convenience of the therapist but usually it is not for the inconvenience of the patient to quite this extent.
And eventually she'll actually fuck it up and that'll be that. Or she'll think of something better.
No, that's not sustainable; me avoiding you is sustainable, just inconvenient. Just like last time till I think of something else to try which works for you.