I wish we hadn't burned the ships. But it's easier to make calls like that in hindsight.
Tolerating has its drawbacks! I am not advocating universal toleration! I just think he'd work well in a setting where the sphere he controlled was more complete in precision and less so in life-consumingness.
Sure. And best in a setting with no Enemy and mining which didn't take years and thousands of people defending the site to get crappy metal. I'm not arguing that the current setting is the best one for my father's talents, I am saying that Kingship is a thing he's good at and entirely capable of being great at, and what you're calling 'corporate officer' might be the only way to win the war, so it is fortunate that he has the political power to pursue it.
No. But political units have a sort of stickiness to them.
When we got to Araman the Valar spoke the Doom, and things were very tense. Father kept saying he wanted to leave now and they kept saying not yet and Maitimo was keeping all of us on shore as proof that we weren't about to sail off without them but no one could agree on which mixture of the hosts to have on the boats and Artanis - and a bunch of other people, I don't mean to pick on her, but she was the most powerful and the most visible - was saying that they were crossing only to avenge the theft of the boats and see my father destroyed for it.
And then word got out that Nolofinwë'd formally started calling himself King of the Noldor. I thought Father'd be angry but he just said 'all right, we're leaving now.' And we got on and left.
My first reason would probably sound like 'even Artanis does not deserve to be trapped with the Valar indefinitely'.
Those people do not deserve to be trapped in the Halls of Mandos indefinitely, either. No one is getting what they deserve, and defeating the Enemy as fast as possible has to come before fixing that.
Also, who do you think is likeliest to devise a way to get people out of Mandos, and how likely to happen do you think it is if he's dead? Well, now that you're here might happen anyway, but we couldn't have predicted that.
Brithombar remembers you fondly if unpronounceably. Believe me, I do appreciate - very thoroughly - that getting rid of the Enemy is probably not going to come down to having a specific quantity of swords on hand.
Not when half of them are pointed at each other. If they'd stayed home, and you'd come and talked with us and somehow found out about it and pressed me on whether it was the right thing to do, I'd have said 'I think so'. Wouldn't have known for sure until we win or lose, and maybe not even until we'd made it possible for anyone to leave Valinor, but I'd have said 'I think so'.