Well really now, what is he, forty?
Abramo did actually notice that Arueshalae is, well, a succubus. But erotic attraction only gets so intense, the body can only respond so strongly! Sure, she's literally supernaturally hot; the fact remains that this is only say a 50% increase in hotness over that of an athlethic, healthy human woman in her early twenties. (Women are really super attractive to heterosexual men, strange but true!) There are lots of smoking hot women in the Crusade, even without anyone throwing Fireballs around, whom Abramo could totally drool over if he weren't, you know, a professional with like three ounces of self-control. And also fifty-mumble years old; he admits that in his thirties his eyes might have dropped downwards for a few seconds.