She smiles, giggles a bit, shakes her head. "I shouldn't laugh. Earth has been doing unusual kinds of sex for a long time, it's not remotely your fault your world hasn't come up with all these words yet. Okay, so there are lots of ways a person can be different, sexually. There's an axis of people who like to control or give orders versus people who like to receive orders. That's dominant versus submissive. Someone who likes both is called a switch. There are people who are into giving pain, sadists, and people who are into receiving pain, masochists. There are people who like penetrating, or being penetrated, typically called top and bottom, with someone who likes both being called verse. There are people who like bondage — this is correlated with dominance and submission, but not all dominants and submissives are into it. Then there are even weirder kinks than that, which I won't start listing unless you ask me to. I am into pretty much the entirety of the preceding list to some extent or another, and a few more things besides."
She kisses his cheek. "You are not going to scare me off or disappoint me, Torok."