She's not going to try to smuggle in the middle of a conversation - she knows that won't work. Instead she will just give Mikko a skeptical look.

"In the part of Tapa where I grew up, it's very common for a kiddo to grow up with three or four or even more parents. But around here, that's much rarer. Instead a lot of people grow up with their grandparents in the house. And in some places it's normal to have your kids very far apart from each other, so one's all grown up before you have the next one, and in others it's normal to have them close together so they can play with each other as children."

Eefa was not in fact aware people planned about kids so much.

"Which one was Shahn?"

"Shahn lived with just his parents, but now he lives with another family that wanted a kiddo because his parents died."

"Was he very far apart to other kids in his house or very close together?"

"He was the only kid in his house. They might have had more, except they died."

Eefa nods and doesn't volunteer further questions.