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That's a really unfair question. 

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It's unfair because she's right and he should be figuring out how to use resources to solve problems, in particular the problem where he feels like he's functioning at about 10% capacity and on priors that is related to pushing himself too hard in some way. And is not just going to go away if he ignores it hard enough. 

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The problem is that he has no idea how to engage with the question because the Khemeth he is LARPing as right now does not really have emotions. 

 

...huh, that does seem like a problem that would make him stupider, doesn't it. He uses that cognitive architecture. 

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He still doesn't know how to interact with the question. 

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Incredibly neurodivergent people are confusing. Fanthim is having a really hard time guessing what's going on with Khemeth right now. 

 

"So I wonder if part of the problem," Fanthim says carefully, "is that the people you would usually talk to when you're upset are themselves also upset about the situation, and so it's more difficult to actually go to them for support. And whether it would help to have someone here who isn't from your immediate family, but who you do have existing trust with." 

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He doesn't go to his immediate family members for emotional support anyway, that's not any different now Yes there is someone except it would be fine if he wasn't family and instead he's the bad half of the family and so he can't be here and it's fine it's doable Khemeth is an adult and can manage two days without seeing his boyfriend. Also he has at least several thousand words of accumulated unread messages from Dekan and if he actually wanted emotional support from him, he could just read those. 

...He has no idea how he actually feels about this, honestly, because when he TRIES to do introspection on his emotions (as opposed to mental Kalorm's emotions, which are loud and obvious) the only result he gets is "intense nausea". 

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She is not going to say out loud "you seem to be doing a deeply bizarre and confusing neurodivergent-alien thing with your brain and I don't understand what it is and have no idea how to help but I am getting more concerned rather than less as a result of this conversation." 

(She might say that later but right now she is fairly confident it will Not Help.) 

She makes a listening noise. 

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(Current emotional self-report: nausea and also he's sort of shaking for some reason. He should maybe get his weighted electric blanket except he's pretty sure there is a specific thing he wants which is not that.) 

"I - there's someone I, I - it would help - if he was here - but it would make my father furious and I, I'm juggling, enough things, with him..." 

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What is WITH this family????? She starts to think she has a handle on them and then THIS!!?? Whatever 'this' even IS!!! Fanthim is not unconfused about that!!! 

 

 

It only takes her five seconds or so to manage to produce words again. "Well," she says, lowering her voice, "I do think it would be irresponsible of me not to get more clarification on why your father would be angry, but - if it's," another absurd alien Finnar thing where he absolutely cannot be modeled as a normal reasonable person who does things that make sense for reasons generally recognized as sane, "if it seems unproblematic other than the consideration about your father's reaction - and I do agree it's not a good time to add any other stressors - we do have space to set up another Family Room, and your father seems, well, preoccupied enough that I really doubt he will notice your absence, let alone wonder if it's because you're seeing a person he doesn't like for some reason." 

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Khemeth flinches. 

"It's - I suppose that's not. Actually deceiving him any more than I usually do."

Khemeth's relationship with Dekan is not in fact secret. His sexual orientation is also not secret. He is a degree of private about his personal life that might strike people as slightly but not very unusual, and mostly this means that he can avoid the matter ever being raised to enough salience that Finnar is forced to think about it. Finnar will, empirically, if given the chance, definitely not think about it otherwise. Khemeth never warned his parents that he would lie if asked directly about his romantic life, and he would in fact be truthful if Finnar ever asked, but Finnar has never asked, let alone gone digging in theoretically-public-but-not-exactly-front-page-news public information to find the evidence that his son has been dating one of the half-cousins for the last decade. 

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Fanthim nods, carefully. "Then as long as the reason for your father's animosity isn't over something that would mean a risk to our patients or infrastructure or personnel if we invite this person to come stay in a nearby but definitely separate Family Room," and give Khemeth a HUG that he DESPERATELY NEEDS, but Khemeth has technically not confirmed this is a hugging relationship Fanthim is just making inferences, "I think that's...unusual but not actually the weirdest family need I've helped provide resources for." 

 

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Khemeth shakes his head, looking suddenly twice as tired. 

"He's just one of the half-cousins. My father has never gotten along with my grandfather's second wife, or any of their children or grandchildren, for," and his eyes sharpen suddenly on her, "for personal history reasons that I - assume you've already read in our file, actually, it's not secret. Anyway. He is from the side of the family that my father will never, ever be reasonable about, and also he's my boyfriend. I expect him to be - upset too, of course, Kalorm is his cousin, but - less. Probably." 

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"I've read it," Fanthim says quietly. Then clears her throat. "Though I am, also, secrecy cleared to - about the same overall level as you, if not necessarily the same exact projects. Somewhat higher than your father and brother, I believe." 

That is about as close as she's willing to get to talking about the Basement in a suite that has a lot of non-cleared family members in it, even if the room is soundproofed and they have the white noise generator on just in case. 

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"Oh." 

He gives her a suddenly anguished look. 

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Shrug. His expression is controlled again. 

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Yeah. She's not much closer than a stranger to him and it's not, in fact, surprising that he isn't going to have emotions in front of her even if they are about objectively very upsetting things. She is slightly tempted to ask if his boyfriend is cleared to know this, but there isn't actually a compelling reason why she needs to know that. 

"Well. How soon do you think he can be here? I am thinking we tell Merrin you'll speak with her an hour later, so you can see him before and also after, and your family will have no strong reason to think you weren't planning with her the whole time." Pause. "- Actually, given the real time constraints and the fact that we need you as an expert on this case as well as Kalorm's family member - which, by the way, I understand is a very hard position to be in - would he object if we send a helicopter to collect him?" 

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"...I'll ask." Khemeth gets out his cellular texter. 

 

He spends the entire twenty-three seconds it takes Dekan to reply wondering if his boyfriend is going to be angry with him this time (emotional self-report: he feels like he's maybe going to throw up, and is otherwise drawing a blank.) 

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Dekan is happy to be collected by helicopter and can be ready by the time a helicopter arrives, as long as they can take care of the contents of his apartment following him at some later point. 

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Then Fanthim will escort Khemeth out to 'meet with Merrin', and he can instead be meeting with his emotional support boyfriend within fifteen minutes! 

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Hug. Dekan is not going to attempt to talk to Khemeth until Khemeth initiates. 

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Yeah no talking at least for now, Khemeth is basically just going to snuggle his boyfriend and cry for forty-five minutes. 

 

By the time he actually heads over to meet with Merrin (at her housemodule; Dekan coaxed him to actually eat something and he feels way better now, he must have been accidentally running a major calorie deficit, walking is now FINE), he has his interacting-with-people face back on. He is not very okay right now but is at least vaguely self-aware about his okayness levels, which is an improvement. 

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Baseline has a number of words for different variations on 'it's really quite strange how someone can be so intelligent and yet in other ways such a dumbass', and Dekan is thinking SEVERAL of them, but mostly the ones with connotations of fond exasperation. 

 

(He is also PRETTY SURE that Khemeth is very upset about something that is not fully conveyed by the facts of the situation Dekan knows about. He's absolutely not going to ask and is avoiding even poking too hard at that confusion; he's fully aware that Khemeth is cleared to a higher grade of secrecy than him.)

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Merrin is lowkey terrified about this meeting but she lets him in. 

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Irris says hi! And is happy to leave or go into the soundproofed extra bedroom if this is private. 

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