"I'll work my way up there eventually," says Adarin. "Probably. Or I'll go with the blindfold idea."
"I cannot recommend blindfolding yourself whenever you are here, but if you have to..."
"That, and you wouldn't be able to see anything. Could be inconvenient."
"Hmm, no, I'll be fine. Just lead me around and try not to run me into trees."
"I mean, you could I suppose get a seeing-eye dog if you're that committed to taking it slowly, but you don't seem scarred for life."
"That might be a bit much. I'll just deal with it. It's uncomfortable but I can handle that," shrugs Adarin. "No being scarred for life. Just briefly traumatized."
"It's strange enough that you bother to have preferences about whether people are wearing clothes, I'm just - still more confused about why it'd be traumatizing. Surely you are more or less aware of what is to be found under clothes."
"I am aware, yes. It's just - not... It's like I'm seeing something very, very private? I suppose is the best way to put it?"
"But the privacy is all in your head, that's what confuses me. It's not like you being really scrupulous about not reading over my shoulder."
"I get that logically but my head is not very amenable to being changed. So I treat it as private even if it doesn't really make sense and I don't know why I'm embarrassed."
"It must be really inconvenient not to have editing privileges for your own head." She hugs him. "Oh well."
Hug! "Do you get editing privileges in your head? Mine just kind of - does what it does and I work within its constraints."
"I mean, it's work, but yes, I can edit things in my head if I want to."
"... Huh. I don't have that ability. That's interesting and useful but it kind of worries me a little?"
"I'm worried about several things - ceasing to be the person you are now, whom I love, and also forcing yourself to be something because you need to be, even if it's not - healthy for you."
"My health - and for that matter my continuity of personality - are not the most valuable conceivable things in the universe. But so far I've never been in a position where it seemed reasonable to sacrifice either, and I don't much expect it."
He does not look pleased with this answer, but he does nod. "That's all I can ask, I suppose."
"I like to think I am sufficiently useful in my current form," she says lightly, hugging him.
Hug! "You are, indeed," he agrees. "Please don't think you're anything but."