“I'm not specifically aware of a secret Governance project working on faster-than-light space travel,” Merrin says. “But I wouldn't be, since: secret. It's the kind of thing that technology could do if the physical laws of the universe were amenable to it. If we are in the same plane, and I could transmit my star chart to them, that's the kind of thing they could use to locate us," okay, not easily, maybe only if she could send high-fidelity video imagery of the night sky from this planet and she has no reason to think that Estha has a spell for that, "and - if dath ilan really exists, and Civilization really has the capabilities I remember, they would have a lot of resources to throw at something this important."
And, of course, from Merrin's perspective, the point is not really whether she personally gets rescued, the point is that if dath ilan knows about Hell then she can hand off the problem to the real adults.
...Which sure feels, right now, like a reason that this will absolutely not end up being possible, because that would not be a satisfying conclusion to the narrative arc of "Reality will keep trolling Merrin until she becomes properly ambitious". Oh, and also she would need to persuade alternate-Estha that dath ilan had a high enough chance of defeating Asmodeus and taking over Hell for it to actually be in his interests to contact them.
That's...not really why she said it, she doesn't think? Merrin's opaque social intuition is not entirely sure why she said it, but - maybe because she wanted him to have as an available thought that - what - that there are places that (might) exist in a larger Reality that aren't stuck in an equilibrium of inexplicable horribleness? But she does not super have the impression that it landed that way, and she can't blame him, it's not an argument, it's just - vaguely gesturing at the vision of a world being better and "isn't that inspiring, though?" and it's not at all surprising, actually, that this isn't compelling by itself. It would be compelling to Laeirthe in his original setting, she thinks, but Laeirthe is only complicatedly a villain.
Shrug. "I don't have any reason to think we can contact them, just - feeling out the space of plans we might in principle both agree are preferable to continuing to be stuck on this planet."