His expression at Lan Xichen says 'I know, right? Help me talk some sense into him.'
He makes a clumsier bow, and in a voice that is much less sophisticated, "Please Zewu Jun, provide your hospitality to him for a short while."
Turning, "Please take a few days rest. I'd, um, also like you to bring a letter to Da-ge for me when you go, and need time to write it."
It wouldn't be anything important, of course. No instruction, no tactical information. Meng Yao would inevitably read it and not attracting suspicion is important. But. It's been years. Even if it would be unreasonable for him to run back to the Unclean Realm, and even as curtailed as he is with things he could write... There are things he should have been saying that he hadn't, the first time around.