"These people are all obsessed with gender. Like - the pharaoh has to be a boy, if anyone wants to talk to his wives they have to be a girl, they only have schooling for boys. When we discussed this a bit they attributed it to the lack of birth control but that can't be the whole story, it doesn't do enough explaining itself. I suspect the rest of the explanation is that they spring more frequently or something, because they were quite insistent that many babies are abandoned to starve on account of no one particularly wanting them, and because Anaander says you can manage human population growth rates with very very soft incentives.
The other visitors are more normal, even the one who is like the locals a human. The one who is a human suspects the pharaoh - and the rest of us, though less saliently than the pharaoh, I think - of secretly being supremely manipulative rapists, because the one he met in his own world was. That one's not here. Just Khemet, Anaander, and me."