She's not paying that much attention to the gender balance.
She bought a lot of paper and will need a significant fraction.
Fëanáro is certainly going to try to come after her but will probably not be able to get anywhere on that for a long time so he's not in immediate danger. She doesn't dare cast anything, but her boots and watch work and haven't caused any problems yet. It'd be... pretty darn antisocial... to sell the boots and buy locally enchanted replacements, because if she did that it'd be because she was worried they'd explode on her or something. She can't do without very effectively, so she will tentatively hope these continue to work.
She doesn't dare try to go back to Arda, but it's probably safe to try to get back to the Imperium. That will just take planar transit instead of an airship. That's going to be expensive, probably more than the value of all her jewelry even if she doesn't eat through any more of it with room and board expenses. She's not an adventurer, but the idea deserves a few minutes' thought, it'd be the fastest way to make money... she isn't an effective enough psion to adventure on that basis and certainly can't lean on being a wizard, and she doesn't have a therapy license and even if she did she wouldn't have a local one. Plus going on an adventure in her boots would be more dangerous than walking down the street in them.
The Valar are stupid and terrible and she HATES THEM.
It is probably not safe to predicate any major action of any kind on Valinor's existence. That means no message for Rúmil (sending one to Fëanáro probably wouldn't even help). She can almost certainly keep braiding her hair and wear these robes till they fall apart and try to reproduce Tirion street food when she has a kitchen but nothing else.
She's been gone for a long time, so everyone back home thinks she's dead or worse, so she doesn't have to be in a particular hurry because the issue's moot from their perspective.
She needs to know how much a plane shift casting costs around here and maybe look into getting a local therapy license. Or she could do translation, maybe, she hasn't sensed any other subtle artists and while it doesn't seem unheard of it may be rare on this plane? So maybe that's a niche.
She could fall asleep now. She goes to bed.