Okay. Keep your heart rate down, Marillë. Yes, this is the Prince Curufinwe. Yes, he's the most genius Elf in all Aman. But he liked your paper, he asked you to be here. There's nothing to be nervous about.
She knocks on the door.
Okay. Keep your heart rate down, Marillë. Yes, this is the Prince Curufinwe. Yes, he's the most genius Elf in all Aman. But he liked your paper, he asked you to be here. There's nothing to be nervous about.
She knocks on the door.
"If at the one thousand Year mark everyone gets sick of their spouses we wouldn't have noticed yet, but I try not to worry about things like that."
"I think that if it happened systematically like that there probably wouldn't be an easy solution like waiting longer and being surer."
"The Year engagement period certainly seems designed to solve the problem that young marriages exemplify, but I don't know, it's never seemed like an especially good solution to me."
"I'm not saying it's not better than nothing, but being away from someone you love for a Year isn't fun."
"Yeah. I think a longer waiting period without the 'can't see each other' part would probably do at least as well, without at least some of the problems."
"I think the worry is that if you're seeing each other it's very tempting to cut the waiting."
"Really? Personally, I think I'd find it more tempting to just give up if giving up meant the difference between being married and being completely absent from their life instead of the difference between being married and getting to see them regularly in a nonmarried fashion."
"I guess it's probably the kind of thing that's different when you're experiencing it than when you're imagining it."
"Yes, probably. My grandfather wants me to get married before he retires, so I'll - have more perspective on things."
"Makes a certain amount of sense. Sort of introduces a problematic set of incentives, though. Good thing you're you and not someone I'd trust less to not be influenced by them."