"We can give you and your immediately family low doses of mnestics. That's not guaranteed to work but it usually does and we have a decent idea of which skips cause the most extreme memory loss. I and the other O5 avoid interacting with those skips, which is why people are able to remember we exist. You could do the same. It does tend to be disorienting for relatives."
He looks at Ned.
"If you don't take mnestics and if Dr. Kirsch does interact with the more dangerous antimemetic skips you would likely experience almost complete memory loss of the time in your life since you began dating, or before that, if you heavily interacted. I'm not aware of your personal history. You'd be able to remember a small assortment of some things, weeks where you went on solo trips for instance, or regular events that Dr. Kirsch was never involved in. It's usually quite debilitating. The Foundation has a general policy of faking the employees death and then using amnestics in these situations. If done correctly the family member can retain most of their memories and just lose the information of who exactly was in them. This is still disorienting but less obvious unless those memories are closely inspected and can sometimes be attributed to grief."