Most rulers have advisors and staff, I'm pretty sure that idea isn't inherently terrible...
So I think standard procedure would have been asking me before even telling Finwë what I'd need to do the best possible job and then I could have told you that the light is making it hard to read and that the process wouldn't be risk-free and the confidentiality thing and then you could have presented all that to him without, uh, being terrified of phrasing it wrong.
Um, there's not really a good procedure for that except 'hope he hires a competent nanny who fills in'.
The procedures are designed to help the monarchs with governance, not with their personal lives, which is kind of short-sighted since their personal lives turn into future governance. I think it has to do with how willing most of them are to accept feedback on their parenting versus delegate parts of their work.
Yeah, it's not as institutional a problem, but apparently Finwë still doesn't very much want to accept feedback on his parenting...?
What sort of definition of 'doesn't mind' are you using for a thing that he doesn't like and doesn't use?
...well, those sound like vaguely reasonable experiments to try, although it must be terribly confusing to be Fëanáro when the rules suddenly change.
Bella skates through the last chapter (Drug And Alcohol Interactions, subtitle Unreliable For Nonhuman Subjects) and has the book skimmed by the time they get there.
Awww. Bella is on a horse so she doesn't approach anything to see if it runs away, but she watches them and awwws.