Having a society where the literate, highly capable, Aman-educated Noldor class mostly marries among each other and the nomadic tree-dwelling natives mostly marry among each other and we are in charge strikes me as more distasteful.
I'm not saying people shouldn't socialize. Or that you shouldn't give intersocietal couples a nice gift basket to celebrate their personally-motivated decisions and loudly tell everyone about that. Soft paternalism is fine, you have good reasons to encourage the habit. But 'let's you and him get married' rubs me the wrong way.
If I thought you were this conversation would be different. There's degrees.
Oh - Tyelcormo - you were going to see if you could hit a sky-colored target. Erm - She fumbles through her notes and repeats the last couple lines from the last time they spoke.
She puts one. Moves it through the air at lazy flight speed, not a hundred miles an hour.
Okay. So maybe - especially now I have the skip-a-night-of-sleep spell should I be in a hurry - I should avoid sleeping in the air.
The closest thing I have to a contingency like that is illusions attached to real objects which detach if the object's destroyed. When I'm flying the only physical object I've got is me.
Oh, I realize it, just because I can duel a flaming Maia doesn't mean I can take down one let alone several Valar, but, well, they may have heard I exist and have opinions, neither of which activities I'm planning on toning down, so.