"But no one who was - family? I suppose you might not know what I mean by that... I suppose I might not know what I mean by that."
"The only family I've watched up close is Miles's. I didn't have any of those, it's true - but if I had, it would likely have been much more of a wrench to leave."
"Yes... I've never even been as far as Komarr. I can't imagine."
"I'll miss some things about Eta Ceta, but I was looking for a way off the planet when I was as young as eight, so I don't have any regrets about it per se."
"I didn't want to leave when I was eight, I started looking for ways to leave later, when I was eight," clarifies Linya. "It was a lovely place to grow up in most ways. But I didn't want to stay there, dedicating my life to relatively useless hobbies and a small handful of slow genetics projects."
"I was very fortunate with respect to Miles's - availability, though."
"I am literally the first haut-lady to marry a non-ghem-lord. I needed a favor from the Empress haut Lisbet to manage it."
"And of course Miles had to do something plausibly worthy of a haut-wife, since that's how that works."
"I don't know anything at all about that," Madame Vorsoisson admits.
"Usually if one is born a haut one stays within the sort of - sphere, that implies. Haut women are sometimes awarded as brides to ghem-lords who have accomplished valuable things - to rid the haut of anyone who isn't up to their exacting standards, to incentivize doing valuable things, to get haut genes into the ghem population in a controlled manner. If Miles hadn't come along, one likely possibility for me looked like remaining in my constellation until I was thirty or so and then marrying some ghem-general or similar."
"I probably could have stayed and not married a ghem-lord if I'd really wanted, since Lisbet was disposed to do me favors by then, but I preferred to come here with Miles."