"Is he that - um - very old Lord Auditor? I think my uncle might have mentioned him a few times," says Ekaterin with maximum politeness.
"Yes. That is him. Let's not say his name again lest he be summoned."
By the end of the party that is the worst moment of the entire affair, and she has an appointment of sorts to go visit Ekaterin for companionable gardening in a week's time.
"So, how was your first proper Vor bash?"
"Roughly within expected parameters. I like Ekaterin Vorsoisson quite a bit, I'm going to go visit her and help her pick out and plant flower seeds next week." There are servants around, so she doesn't scoop him. She wanders into an adjacent and uninhabited room hoping that he will follow her first.
"Oh, good! See? Friends!"
"I wasn't previously aware that was a thing," says her extremely scoopable husband. "I definitely feel like I shouldn't have done as much standing up as I did this evening. Congratulations on your plant-related exploits. No kitten trees, I hope?"
"No. Storebought flower seeds, entirely heirloom. And no more standing up for you, I think." Up she goes, still carrying him, to their room.
"Excellent. I remain convinced that Barrayar is not ready for kitten trees. Also, I love you," he sighs, leaning his head on her shoulder.
"I love you too. Barrayar may remain uninfested by vertebrate-bearing flora."
"Barrayar thanks you. Or it would, if it had any idea. This way's probably for the best." She has such a cozy shoulder. Miles may be falling a little bit asleep on it.
He is welcome to fall asleep on her. She will very gently tuck him in to bed if he does it.
He remains sort of dozily half-awake until she does that, and then drifts off as near-instantly as one can fall asleep and still be said to drift.