"Large transfers of wealth draw attention; we have known each other for less than two weeks; the fact that we're going to be traveling together doesn't diminish the fact that then you wouldn't have it anymore. I suppose I'm a slightly longer-term caretaker than any of your myriad identities, since I age as I am expected to, but it will still add an extra step if you want to buy anything."
"Oh, I wouldn't give it to you on the books," he laughs. "I'd just take it all with us, and if I had you I wouldn't need a legal identity of my own, I could just let you buy all the groceries."
"Being without a legal identity could probably be inconvenient under some - admittedly unlikely - circumstances."
"I begin to suspect you have an unconventional definition of need."
"Different things, depending. Right now it means that I wouldn't have to have one just to make my everyday life convenient. I could get most of the same things out of living with you, in mostly the same ways, whether I officially existed or not."
"That's true. If you give the Harlequin to a museum you won't need the identity to keep your ship registered either."
"See? And if something else comes up, well, then it comes up. I can always start existing again."
"Mostly, I make the old name disappear as much as I can and start using the new one. Sometimes I invent records; sometimes I just let the new paper trail speak for itself. The methods tend to change over the years."
"There was a first thing I was called, but it wasn't a name and I don't like it," he says.
Then he says, "The people who made me didn't think of me as a person. I probably would've hated anything they called me, but the fact that it was essentially a model number makes it that much worse."
"I have been known to experience mixed feelings about my parentage, but - nothing comparable."
"Yeah," he says with a quirk of a smile, squeezing her hand gently. "You had parents, for one thing."