"Does this mean you don't want an alien concubine?" he asks, blinking innocently.
"Well, all right. I want to follow you around the galaxy and help you steal fire from the gods and talk to you and snuggle with you and have sex with you, because I like you and you're fun and I'm going to miss you when you die. What parts of that plan don't you like?"
"The plan does not contain objectionable parts. It - does not have a recognizable shape if I presume those parts are the only ones operative."
"It would be easier to think about if it corresponded to something I have a label for. I can't tell if you want to be my - physically affectionate friend - or my sa-kugalsu or something in between."
"One of them. Something in that range. I'd be more specific if I wanted something more specific but I don't."
"I will react differently to suggestions of affectionate friendship, offers of - boyfriendhood - and proposals of marriage!"
"But I'm trying to tell you I wouldn't. I mean, I'd feel a little differently about them, but all three are fine."
"I am not sure what to make of that. I suppose I could just imagine that you'd been more specific and produce reactions to the individual ideas."
"While it would not have been culturally uncharacteristic for me to have been betrothed at age seven, I do not wish to become so now to a man I met less than two weeks ago. I believe I would find physically affectionate friendship emotionally confusing. I would be willing to be your girlfriend."
"And - yes, you can come with me if you want to. How long do you think it will take to rescue your ship and find a new home for her?"