[Do you love him?]
[Did it really take me a while or am I really used to you?] Bella asks. [I don't mean you're overwhelmingly predictable or seem normal to me, that's not the same thing.]
[I have formed the background expectation that you will be around, and have a basically serviceable model of what that should mean to me,] Bella says. [If you disappeared, this would be alarming and require mental adjustment. I'm calling that being-used-to-you.]
[Ooh, carrot cake,] Bella comments. [Lazarus, we could teleport you something to eat, right? Assuming you eat neatly without the benefit of a plate and pretend to be hungry when Libby-or-whoever fetches you there should be no associated informational giveaway.]
[...I'm not sure how you plan on the food arriving neatly without the benefit of a plate, but beyond that, yes.]
[I was thinking "land in the hand wearing the watch"; would that refer too directly to you, in your expert opinion?]
[Yes. If you end up referring to me, it won't work, even if you only end up referring to me because I happen to fit a criterion like 'wearing Kolya's watch'.]