After Finnah has been living with Mial for two months, she writes her mother a letter, which no one else in the household is invited to see. She gets a reasonably prompt response, which no one is allowed to see. This goes on every few months. Finnah does not seem to enjoy sending or receiving the letters but continues regardless.
Between letters, Finnah relaxes. She eats normally and expresses lucid, if often scathing, opinions about things. She flies around and plays board games with Mial and fingerpaints and sings and reads and accompanies her host family on trips to places that are not Aurin's house. (Aurin himself relaxes around her - though he is obedient to his mother's instructions about remaining human- or eagle-shaped - but Alys mostly doesn't, albeit with the utmost politeness.)
Between letters, Finnah relaxes. She eats normally and expresses lucid, if often scathing, opinions about things. She flies around and plays board games with Mial and fingerpaints and sings and reads and accompanies her host family on trips to places that are not Aurin's house. (Aurin himself relaxes around her - though he is obedient to his mother's instructions about remaining human- or eagle-shaped - but Alys mostly doesn't, albeit with the utmost politeness.)
While most institutions that teach wizardry (at least, the tradition practiced by nonfey air-breathers) are principally geared towards adults or at least adolescents, there are a handful, including a newish one in Paraasilan called Binaaralav Academy, that will take kids as young as six-equivalent if they can pass the admissions tests.