Carissa has no idea how to navigate that. It does seem to her like being more of a wizard is objectively superior to being fabulously wealthy but not much of a wizard. But it seems horrendously rude to say that. On the other hand agreeing when Alfirin says it seems maybe different. But she still can't just agree that she's better than Alfirin, and also all the flattery would land more easily if she could figure out what it's aimed at. No one would go to this much effort just to sleep with her, would they?
…perhaps she will just deflect and tell Alfirin cool things about magic item creation, and come across socially oblivious but also harmless and competent at magic, which is in fact the thing she's competent at.
"I hope it'll be of use. Did you know that most of the reason it's spellsilver-intensive to layer enchantments is that they interfere even if they're activated only separately? Otherwise you could thread them. I've been wondering since I saw the factory if there are magical insulators that'd let you separate the parts of a gun and enchant them each separately and more cheaply…"