"You're welcome - oh, um. If my mother hadn't been home when you'd called would it have been a disaster?"
And then wait for her to call back while he was writhing in guilt because he didn't get up and try to find her house and tell her himself. Details.
"Maybe in the future you should call me before you learn things? And make sure I'll be around to hear them after you have learned them."
"Well - yeah, and I appreciate that, it would be pretty inconvenient if I couldn't take showers unless Rinty was by the phone, but I do not want to torture you to avoid experiencing an extra phone call."
"Realistically it will probably happen at some point in time, eventually. You - understand that you're not responsible for the artifact induced guilt, right? You're not torturing me, if I choose to go through it instead of doing the most efficient thing to tell you whatever the information or secret is, that's on me."
"I know I'm not torturing you, but - I don't want you to be tortured. I would like there to be very few obstacles between you and avoiding torture."
"Thanks, but - I think I have a bit more of a cavalier attitude about it than you do? I knew what I was getting into when I signed up. I don't want to constantly interrupt the lives of those around me."
"It's not constant if you call me twice instead of once to make sure I'm not in the shower."
"I know. This particular example isn't - the right one, you're absolutely right, I should have called first."
"Okay. I mean - don't steal somebody's car to break traffic laws on the way to my house to tell me things if I don't answer the phone, but - take reasonable precautions and please don't be afraid to talk to me."