"Right. So ship-selves-- they're not designed for real combat, and they were never made with practicality in mind. 'Death defeats the purpose of conflict, which is how humans communicate and change; death and war end conflict, while the Ship-self signals the transformation of conflict from suffering to love--' Pluto can quote you the rest, I'm sure she's spent enough time around Doctor Nix.
But Nix and Europa designed ship-selves, not Earth militaries, and Earth uses autonomous weapons that don't have anything to communicate except a bullet in your brain. If Earth and space get in a real war, we all die."