"- well, I don't know if they're all exactly alike. Kitty freezes up. She can almost always talk, but depending how bad it is she might not be able to run an errand, or sometimes even eat with a fork. ...you don't know what a fork is. Uh, but they aren't hard to use, for most people. Bullying her doesn't help, urgency doesn't help, having done it a million times before doesn't help, the only thing that helps is telling her what's next, in tinier and tinier steps till there's a step small enough for her. In a kid it just looks kind of lazy and contrary, lots of kids are kind of lazy and contrary. And I was a precocious and bossy little thing. Followed her around everywhere and told her I wanted to play store or princesses or whatever and exactly how I wanted her to and she'd do it because she could, it was the only thing she could always do -" She sighs. "So we were very close growing up, see."