"Well...for one thing, the smell thing is a bigger deal than you seem to think it is. It, hm, it doesn't just tell you factually what gender someone is. There's, you know, meaning to it. Like the fact that I have breasts doesn't just tell you factually that I'm a childbearing gender, but also serves as a focus for attraction. And everyone smells differently, so you can tell someone's gender but you can also tell who they are. On I guess a more practical level for someone like you...on average, harmi have larger breasts and wider hips than haran, and desret are a little taller and a little more muscular than a desan, and of course the interfertility thing," she gestures at her chart.
"I wonder how the translation effect would render it. I'm out of practice at not falling over, though, and doing it without wings is the equivalent of having a terrible accent."
"There we go. No need to test it."
"I guess. I don't think the translation effect is actually... doing anything to me? It wouldn't improve matters, anyway. So I don't know what that would be like."
He dances: I am least likely to fall over with this language! The sensation is sort of a cross between actually hearing the sentence in her own language and finding all the motions of the dance self-evidently expressive.