"It seems like it might be inconvenient if you all die or something but I'm probably just a little too accustomed to 'and then a bunch of people die' as a possible next narrative item in arbitrary narrative."
"Well I think at least a few of my children are at some point going to marry. And no one in Valinor dies. And the Silmarils are sufficiently dangerous that having them in arbitrary hands might not be an improvement over them ceasing to function. Also, it gives any enemy with the capacity to kill my family the incentive not to."
"Good points all. Although if you have enough descendants it might stop being a good filtration criterion."
I think he thinks that regard won by being likable is - worse than worthless. He tells people the story about his mother being forced to stay dead so his father could remarry, you know, and he tells it so emotionlessly, and he'd get the reaction he wants from more people if he sounded sad but I think what he's curious about is what they think of the information when their cues to instead play social games are stripped away.