"Well, Mom's coru and I'm coru, but I don't feel like Isten's going to turn out sweela," he says. (Because of two things, mainly - one, while Queen Risella is very definitely sweela, she also has very definitely zero interest in her child and he's not going to get any direct influence from that quarter. Two, Isten just doesn't come off that way. If he had to guess with this little to go on, he'd guess torz, or coru. But he doesn't think guessing with this little to go on is especially reliable.)
"I can't remember not knowing what I am. When'd you know?"
(There's - something - about the way in which he identifies with his element. He isn't thinking about it directly, so it's not very clear. But it's a thing that he sees as unusual about himself, and is proud of or satisfied with.)
Kiri tilts her head, leans a little closer. She's not sure how much it helps but there's no time like the present to find out.
"It's - doing words about it is hard, I'm not mostly getting words. Something you like about how you're elemental, that's different from how most people are whatever."
It goes something like this: He is very coru. But he is very coru only because lots of things about coru are him and lots of things about him are coru. He hears people all the time talking about their own or others' elements like the element defines the person - as though someone who is elay but very practical, or hunti but sometimes indecisive, or sweela but shy, is not just imperfectly their element but imperfectly themselves. As though, unless they can be appropriately categorized into another element that fits a defined role - his mother's crown of elay, for example, that leads people to guess it for her all the time, or the palace cook's heart of sweela that puts art and fire into her work when to look at her you'd think torz through and through - any trait a person has that plain doesn't fit is something wrong and strange about that person.
To the prince, this is nonsense on the level of kiertens. People are themselves. The elements define obvious categories, but if someone doesn't fit those categories perfectly, that's just a fact of who they happen to be and it doesn't make the not-fitting parts of them any less theirs.
"Huh," says Kiri. "I'm not shy, but sometimes I'm - I guess the word for it is 'calculating' but I don't think that's a nice word for it - and even though that's a very think-y mind-y thing to be and it seems perfectly fitting to me it's not how some people think sweela people are supposed to be. We're supposed to be the most emotional."
Now that he's thought about the palace cook, it occurs to him that while at this point the food here is nothing remarkable to him, Kiri probably did not grow up on Beryn's cooking and is therefore about to be pleasantly surprised.
("Home" is still the little house in Swiftford where she grew up, even now that she has technically inherited both the Chialto house and the larger Ardelay manse farther upstream on the Swiftness River, and between those places and the palace she'll probably spend less than a quintile "home" in any given year.)
"Mmmmmmmmmm," says Kiri when she has eaten a taste of the main course.
She makes use of his thoughts once or twice. She wants to get this right from the beginning; she's going to be prime for the rest of her life and is rather keenly aware that this means she's going to have to live with whatever reputation she begins to collect at the age of eight. However clever she considers herself, this is a handicap she wishes to work around.
"This is the best food I have ever had," pronounces Kiri after she has eaten enough to make such a judgment.
"You'll have to satisfy that blessing someplace else, I guess."
"I guess. I was surprised when you didn't mind being mindread."
"My parents told me not to worry about it if I need to pass them in a hallway really quick or something, so it's not as bad as it could be, but nobody hugs me anymore."
He would really like to fix that. He would so much like to fix that. He would not like to fix that while they are supposed to be eating dinner, because he doesn't feel like inciting punishment today, but he would like to fix that at the earliest available opportunity. And then continue to fix it afterward. Hugs are good and he wants her to have lots.