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"I'm assuming - tutors? In various subjects? Rather than some kind of traditional school like I went to."

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"Yes."

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"So there's that. Um." Bella scratches her head. "I'm not thinking of any other obvious decision-making that can be made in advance but I'm concerned that this is me overlooking things that are in fact decisions as though options that aren't what I'd go with were not options at all."

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"Can you think of any examples?"

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Bella thinks.

"I think maybe some people put their babies to sleep in the room with them even if this isn't forced by space constraints in the house?" she offers. "And that seems - well, for one thing, right now we have three rooms between us, so how not giving Carinna her own room to start with would work is not obvious."
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"Any room close enough for me to hear it should be fine."

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"Okay. You going to breastfeed?"

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She shrugs. "I don't see a reason not to."

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"...How many kids do we want, eventually?"

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"At least one that survives to adulthood," Sherlock says dryly.

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"I mean - the more of them there are the less pressure is on any individual one to like politics, get married, produce children of their own," says Bella. "You two were having issues with the husband quest thing, after all. But of course there are also reasons not to have half a dozen even if that would still only involve going through childbirth twice apiece."

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Tony snorts. "How about one each?"

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"One each sounds workable to me," Bella says. "Unless of course Sherlock tells us it's disastrous and we must never try it after her turn."

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"I find that unlikely."

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"People do routinely go through the process more than once on a volunteer basis," agrees Bella. "Okay. So probably three. Their own rooms near enough Sherlock to be heard. Standard princessly tutoring, no unusual dietary arrangements, what am I forgetting - there should probably be some consistent reaction from us if they misbehave, I guess, so they don't just go to whoever the softy is." She glances at Tony. She bets Tony would be the softy.

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"Who, me?"

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"Maybe," says Bella.

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"And yet, we cannot predict ahead of time precisely in what ways our future children might annoy us and agree on the appropriate course of action for each one."

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"No, of course not. But, general principles. I wasn't a defiant kid, but I wasn't perfectly behaved either. Ranata usually took away privileges, Charlie usually sat me down in disappointed silence and grounded me," she supplies. "...I think I'm pretty much just against spanking across the board."

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"Yes," says Sherlock.

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"We, uh... didn't get a whole lot of parenting. Dad ignored us until I got big enough to work on stuff with him, and then he'd just kick me out of the workroom for a while if I broke something or forgot a safety rule. Probably not the best example to follow."

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"What about your mother?"

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"If she found out we were doing something she didn't want, she'd sit us down and explain why it was a bad idea."

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"...That seems like a generally decent principle, no?"

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"Yes."

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