When your neighbors kill you when you were just trying to have a polite discussion about mutual problems, it's probably not a good sign. They didn't go and hunt down her various homes to outright destroy her, though. At worst it's a temporary inconvenience, and that's what destroying her form was aimed at.
She covers herself in stone and reaches out to feel the surrounding tiles as she stands, almost reflexively. She does not feel any tiles.
I respawned. But... Where the hell am I?