This is an open thread for letters to a college newspaper's advice column. Anyone should feel free to reply (as a character or themselves) asking for advice - people in the town where the college is also read the newspaper and may send in questions in addition to students. This is earthfic. Mind the warnings.
Dear readers,
I'm glad to announce the beginning of this new column in our esteemed university's newspaper. I hope to engage in a lively dialogue with my fellow students and miscellaneous residents of this fine town and aid you in a search for a deeper meaning in life than provided by our modern world, so full of distractions and temptations to reach for immediate pleasure rather than the important things in life.
Sincerely,
Phineas
I'm sorry to hear about this. Given the circumstances I'd understand the bedbugs to be effectively an STD. You should absolutely come clean to your girlfriend. If you truly believe you can overcome this obstacle in yourself you should give her the option of breaking up with you but make clear your genuine remorse. Otherwise it is preferable to break up with her after coming clean lest you strain your integrity again. Unless, of course, you are married, in which case you should work hard and resolutely to improve your fidelity, whatever the circumstances, as breaking up is not a reasonable option under such circumstances.
...She's pretty sure there's a fanfic she should send this Mels girl.
To make a point.
Dear Advice Column:
Is Phineas Catholic? I am detecting critical levels of Catholic guilt and marriage thoughts! To which I would like to point out that annulments do, actually, exist. Anyway, I'm kind of wondering what advice you'd give about becoming less of a shutin trashfire! Modulo crippling anxiety.
...Not that I expect it's going to be good advice, just that I'm really curious what it'll be.
Sincerely,
-- Mira Grant (this is a pseudonym)
While annulments exist they bear very little resemblance to the common practice of divorce in modern times - annulments are to be used only when a marriage was already invalid when performed, not because a couple is going through difficult times.
While it's true that I'm Catholic I think I have less guilt than most people, not more.
As for advice: have you considered going to church?
Dear Writers,
I own a house along with my coworkers 'Alice' and 'Bob' and some friends 'Carol' and 'Danielle'. Bob's girlfriend 'Erin' also lives here and shares his room. Lately, Bob and Erin have been working together on an information technology startup and Erin has been assembling and shipping out a lot of hardware for it. However, Erin has chronic fatigue issues. Alice and Bob and I were recently out on a work trip. When we came back, Carol and Erin had some disagreements about how to handle all the trash Erin's work was producing – Erin wasn't physically able to handle it herself.
I just dealt with it myself this time to make people stop arguing, but what's the right way to handle this going forward?
... how did you get an advice column Mels.
As usual, ignore everything Mels said. In the future, Bob should be tasked with ensuring there are no issues with the amount of trash related to their work, seeing as he's the one with the physical capacity to dispose of it.
A way to get advice from normal people without having to talk to them! Excellent! And if it's in the school newspaper, he can also get free advertising space.
To the authors of this university's advice column,
I am in my final year at this university and am hoping to conduct surveys and experiments regarding the opinions of the students and their political views, as a part of my preliminary work for a final class essay. Unfortunately, I have been met with an impediment in the way of my research, as I have found that most of the students who I have approached across campus have shown little interest in completing these surveys, and several have offered as their only relevant political opinion various forms of advice as to which parts of my own body I should bring into connection with each other.
I have a station set up for students to sign up for such events at room 326, but few have visited. Do you know of any locations in particular I might want to visit, that are home to individuals who might be less inclined to refuse my request? Otherwise, do you have any suggestions as to how I should approach people when making said requests? Although I am unsure whether her opinion is a commonly held one, I have been informed by one student that I am a "creepy-ass nerd" and that I should "talk like a normal human," both of which seem potentially connected to my failure to resonate with others.
Thank you,
Eric Underwood
Dear Phineas:
I did that for a decade and a half, it didn't help. You got anything else?
And that hypothetical marriage would absolutely be ripe for annulment; it was entered into under false pretenses! Infidelity of that sort takes effort that should have been devoted to one's partners, and it was not; ergo the hypothetical vows of devotion to eachother were false in the potentially-emasculable partner's case, ergo, it is null in the eyes of God! ...Probably; I'll admit that I only know annulment exists because someone I know went through a Catholic divorce.
But seriously, suffering does not build virtue, only works build virtue. Deeper meanings are all well and good, but what matters most is action to build a grace-full world. I'm inverting the formula here a bit, but - here's my advice: do something nice for yourself. You have worth in the eyes of God.
...Wow, I'm surprised I wrote that. But seriously, you too deserve nice things. And Mels don't you dare say whatever you're about to. Shush.
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Speaking of Mels, though -
Dear Mels:
Honestly, immersion therapy is not the worst idea I bet you've had. Despite the fact that this is not how it works.
I do bet you know where the good clubs are around here, though. Anywhere that won't kill my hearing?
-- Mira Grant (still under a pseudonym)
Dear writers,
Today while I was trying to climb one of the trees on campus to see better, I fell out and would have broken my back, except this girl caught me and said something about "catching a fallen angel." Then she called me cute before setting me down and leaving. And I think she's cute too??? Does this mean I'm gay???? Also if I am gay how do I find her again because I forgot to ask her name or her contact information.
Thanks,
Anxious Angel
Hiyah Eric!
I've always found offering to put part of my body on interesting parts of other people's bodies a fantastic way to get to know them. I'd be happy to meet up in person to show you what I mean ;P
Dear Mira,
I'd recommend searching for a new church, or a study group that can better serve as a close community to provide you comfort and companionship.
Dear Lissa,
Cuuuuuute. I will find this person for you. You can send me any further info you have [here] and I will do my very best to connect you two lovebirds.
(Gay girls are a myth, all girls are bi. Except for t-girls like yours truly who are gay either way we swing <3 )
Dear Haver of the BEST Sex,
IDK, he's a girl now. Fuck his ass and call it a day.
(And then call me ;) )
Every time I have an important project due I find myself staying up five days in a row. This is fine, except my boyfriend
- she considers the recipients of her letter, and the likelihood of her life changing course -
boyfriend husband fiancé is terribly worried for me. What shouldn't I do about this?
Hey advice column people,
Any of you know how to get dust out of a phone? I kind of tore out the camera and now there's this big hole where the camera used to be and it's got a bunch of dust in the wires. I didn't want to wash it in the sink after what happened to my computer but I couldn't get the dust out with a towel or anything. I tried using my tongue and it kind of worked but I also got shocked. Is it okay to get your tongue shocked?
JJ
(this is, in fact, a true story)
Dear Elwing!
The great thing 'bout guys is that you can make em forgive you for just 'bout everything if you fuck em enough, so try that? Not sure what you shouldn't do, so long as you do that.
Dear John,
Wow. Somehow that's the hottest phone repair issue I've head bout. How bout you tear my camera out.
As for your tongue's shocking discovery, it's fine - I've used improvised violet wands every which where and I'm still hardly brain damaged. ;)
I... really don't think you should be taking Mels' advice on this one. For as many as several reasons. However, as a practical matter of my duty to my readers, I'll relate what I can observe of Mels particular brand of ... charisma I suppose.
Mels is outgoing, more so than anyone I have ever met. I've assumed that being outgoing and without social boundaries would have significant downsides, and while Mels illustrates this quite clearly her determination to keep going forward is a sort of remarkable, I suppose. There's really very few people who can take up a room like she does, a center of attention driven by equal parts curiosity, fear, and excitement.
Still, I would caution against this - Mels' field of energy invigorates at a cost, and I do wish more people could see that.
[What follows this last letter would be a story of Mels attempting to adopt this child and Phineas reluctantly involving himself to make sure things don't go too badly.]
[It would be a hilarious and heartwarming story of found family - with Mels learning the concept of responsibility and Phineas learning that relying on traditional systems to help doesn't always work.]
[It would also completely derail this thread.]
[So I am tragically going to skip this letter for now.]