"Did he force you?"
So now she knows who the man was. The Duke of Gandia. She prefers it, immensely, to having no name for him.
But also the Duchess knows. She had been - imagining, somehow, stupidly, that the Duchess would never find out, that no one would ever find out, that it would just be her secret all her life -
"My staff reflects on me. Your work is important. I have endeavored to hire men and women possessed with good judgment and good characters. I am disappointed, and more than that I am confused. What were you hoping would happen? He doesn't remember your name, if he bothered to learn it."
"I don't know if it would have worked here. I suspect so. He is my guest, and not a complete idiot; whatever his morals, and I've seen no evidence of them, I would be surprised were he willing to offend and outrage an ally in order to have a woman he bumped into in her mansion's servants' quarters."
"In the moment I am sure it would have been much more unpleasant, if he was angry. But for the rest of your life and at final judgment it would have been better. In Cheliax as it was before Asmodeus women did die for their honor, Issa. I will not pretend to you that the men who sought them could always be deterred with the right words.
But do you know how I know this? I know this because I met them in Axis. Their mortal lives ended, by outrageous injustice, and they awoke in paradise, where there is no power that can or will touch a person against their will, and they all live richer than Kings, and always will.
And do you know who I didn't meet in Axis? The women who bore children they had no means of support for, and strangled them, or turned to theft.
You should have been willing to die for your honor. You can name it an injustice of Pharasma, if you like, but it is practical advice, and the advice I'll give my daughters, and it is an injustice we endure for only a tiny fraction of our eternal and immortal lives."
"I am glad to hear it as you may have to. I'm sending you back to Chelam. I can't have you here any more and you can't do your work. Keep your legs shut, don't be stupid, and know that I will protect you, if you do your best to do the right thing and are overcome, but not if you are too cowardly to try."